[spoilers] Harry and Ruth. The Wonder Years.

[Beatriz]

I also agree with almh, here. I admit feeling a bit guilty about voting for the second option, but it's what I really feel. This doesn't mean that I don't want Ruth to solve her issues, reconcile with herself and end up being with Harry. I think (and it has been mention before) that she doesn't blame Harry anymore, but she blames herself, sometimes we are our worst enemies.

Harry thinks that her refusal has to do with him (ok, "after the choices you've..." doesn't help) and to a certain extent, it is true, because the things they've been through, but not because she thinks he's not a good person. (Hope this makes sense).

IMO, this was better for them both, as almh says, if Ruth had accepted Harry's proposal she wouldn't have been honest neither with him nor with herself.

I do want them together, but I want them fully together, with no regrets...