Tom or Matthew?

[femaleBertieWooster]

It wouldn't be the name that was the problem but the fact that they were both too busy to have a life. She was a restauranteur so was probably working longer hours than Tom.

Add to that the fact that he could get killed at any time. I would tend to shy away from something like that.

While we're on the subject, once someone gets the word and continues with the relationship, I can see some disappointment when a call comes in to destroy nice plans for a day but not the whole nine yards. She should have given his job more respect than she did. I thought she was way too whiny anyhow and could not see his attraction to her.

It must be hard for a spook to get a life, aka "It's hard out there for a Spook."